Drunk Dial: Nothing Good Comes From “I’m Sooo Drunk”

Follow on Bloglovin

Chiara Mazzucco

CEO, Editor-in-Chief at The Indie Chicks, Inc
Chiara got her start in the blogosphere by dishing out reality slaps on her dating and relationship blog. The brutal honesty that became her signature tone earned her the badass reputation she needed to get The Indie Chicks magazine up and running. She is also a web designer and author of The 9 Mirages of Love. Driven, stubborn, and wildly ambitious, she won’t stop until she is the perfect, self-empowered role model for all of her readers.

Latest posts by Chiara Mazzucco (see all)

Everyone knows the feeling of power that flows through your veins when you’re holding your phone and you’ve had one too many drinks. Even if you’re in tears, complaining about your ex, the power is still there. You see, booze is magic. The moment one too many gets into your system, you obtain the super power you’ve always dreamed of. If you’re dealing with a broken heart, you’ve suddenly unearthed the strength to call your ex. If you’ve been crushing on a co-worker, booze lights the fire under your bum and drops your heart onto your sleeve. No matter the reason you’re dialing under the influence, you need to stop now.

Nothing Good Comes Out of “I’m So Drunk”

And make no mistake, even if you say “I’m not drunk”, your voice gives it away. You could be confessing your love to a crush … but the sound of your spit onto the microphone isn’t very appealing. You could be telling your ex-boyfriend that his dick was small and that you masturbated to the thought of his cousin … but it won’t sound like too much of an insult if it’s muffled by burps, long awkward pauses, and short speeches to nearby tree trunks. The point is, whatever the reason you’re making the call, it’s not coming through clearly; your drunkeness is masking the sound of your huge balls dropping.

Liquid Courage Vs Hot Mess

Let’s be honest: sometimes, calling your ex and telling him off for bangin’ your friend and breaking your heart requires the aid of a trusty shot (or two). But no one has to tell you (because deep down you know) the difference between using booze as the occasional liquid courage versus a numbing agent you can use as an excuse to act a fool. But I was so drunk!

 The Call Was Still Made

Let’s assume you are using it as a numbing agent and excuse. Ha. You know that when you wake up, there won’t be any going back, right? And that saying, “But I was so drunk …”, will do absolutely nothing for your defense. If you need to get sloshed before making calls, there’s a reason you’re not making them when you’re sober.

Let’s say you’re calling a crush. And let’s say a really drunk call somehow lands you a first date. What are you going to do, order a bottle of wine to the dome on your first date? I get it. Professing your affection for someone new can be really scary. Technically, I don’t believe booze ever makes or breaks, but I won’t deny that in this scenario, a little liquid courage wouldn’t hurt. But trust me when I say: there’s no going back from a really hammered drunk dial … you’re not as attractive as you think you are while under the influence. You see Jessica Rabbit, he hears Janice from Friends.

Calling your ex is always a no-no. Deep down, no matter how badly you want to call him, you know it’s a mistake. You know it’ll make you seem desperate, you know you wish he would call you first, and you know, deep down, that nothing good can come out of it. When you’re drunk and you call, you hope the outcome will be different and that you’ll prove your sober self wrong. You think that by taking seven shots in a row, reality is somehow altered, time has stopped, and this time he’ll pick up and realize what a mistake he made. It doesn’t work that way, the hang over will be a harsh reality. 

Don’t Be a Coward

You will face the dragon whether you buffer it with booze the night before or not. You will eventually have to deal with the heart break. You will eventually have to face your crush. Don’t be a coward (take ONE shot if you must) and face life with your head held high. The best calls to the ex are made when you’re pumped and strong, with ONE goal in mind.

“Hi. I need to know, did you sleep with Annie? … You did? … Ok, thanks for clearing that up. You’re a piece of shit. Ciao.” … dial tone.

“Hey Mike. Let’s go out for dinner, you intrigue me. Awesome. See you at 8″… dial tone.

That directness doesn’t exist while you’re drunk and simultaneously attacking a homeless person for a cigarette.

Quit hiding.

Tell us your most horrific drunken dial stories. That is … if you remember them.

Image Credit: Shutterstock

Follow on Bloglovin
  • http://www.fantasydatinggame.com/ Suzanne Casamento

    “Janice from Friends.” Yes! That is exactly what the drunk dial recipient will hear. When I was 22, I had a mad crush on a bartender and in the wee hours of the morning, when I’d stumble in, I would drunk dial him. I have no idea what I babbled about but I imagine it was not pretty.

    Then he started ignoring me at the bar. Clearly, I’d become Janice. So I wrote a sign and hung it on my wall, “DO NOT CALL NO MATTER HOW YOU RATIONALIZE IT.” When I saw the sign, I remembered I was sober and smart when I wrote it. So I never drunk dialed again.

    A couple weeks went by and he began calling me. Thank God he had a short term memory. ;)

  • http://joannerambling.wordpress.com/ Jo-Anne

    I have even made some drunk phone calls, I know who would think little ole me would do such a thing