9 Reasons Men Love a Badass Chick

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Chiara Mazzucco

CEO, Editor-in-Chief at The Indie Chicks, Inc
Chiara got her start in the blogosphere by dishing out reality slaps on her dating and relationship blog. The brutal honesty that became her signature tone earned her the badass reputation she needed to get The Indie Chicks magazine up and running. She is also a web designer and author of The 9 Mirages of Love. Driven, stubborn, and wildly ambitious, she won’t stop until she is the perfect, self-empowered role model for all of her readers.

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Let’s not kid ourselves: a big part of our lives is dedicated to being attractive to the opposite sex.  While many of us have unique qualities that draw men in, there’s something to be said about the irresistible charm of a badass chick.  What makes men love a badass chick?

Here Are Just 9 Reasons Men Love a Badass Chick

1. A Badass Chick Is Confident

This quality is the reason #’s 2-8 exist – if you’re not confident, you can’t be a badass. Confidence has the power to save you from a shitty situation and to collect everything you deserve in life, rather than watching others collect it for themselves. Being a doormat gets you no closer to badass chickhood than it does a generally happy life.

Another reason men love a confident chick is because with confidence comes the lack of jealousy and lack of drama. A badass chick can’t be bothered with exes and female coworkers - she knows she’s better. 

2. A Badass Chick Is Good in Bed

Yup, I said it. Do you have any idea how awesome your inner sex kitten is? Why are you hiding her in fear of a love handle being noticed or the general fear that your moves won’t please your partner? The universal truth is there are few things you can do to turn a man off – one of those few things is being insecure. A confident chick is a sexy chick; a chick men fantasize about being with. So, get to dancing in lingerie after a steamy hot shower to the beat of your favorite song. Let your inner sex kitten loose, baby.

3. Other Men Want Her

You know who she is; she walks into a bar and all the guys instantly drop their jaws in response. Quite frankly, it doesn’t matter what she looks like, men respond to competition (it’s an evolutionary thing) so when they see other men want something, they automatically want it, too.

4. A Badass Chick Stands Out

Much like the previous idea, men like a challenge.  If your face (and name) blur into the masses, where’s the fun in trying to conquer? When you’re confident, you have the strength to not only define yourself, but to also stand strong at your post. We are all beautiful and unique and it is precisely those qualities that draw the opposite sex.

So unless you’re aiming for a guy who fantasizes about doing plain Jane over and over and over again, standing out of the crowd is a sure way to get noticed.

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  • Ashley

    Sorry to be a jerk, but… “A badass chick can’t be bothered with exes and female coworkers – she knows she’s better.” No one needs to be worse than someone else for you to be awesome. Each individual person has their own merit, regardless of the “type” of chick (person) they are. This is the kind of mentality that leads to bullying, and a major source of girl hate. We are all awesome in our own way

    • Chiara

      First of all, no need to apologize for your opinion. Secondly, to clarify, she’s better than being bothered, not better than the individual. And lastly, I in no way support bullying or girl hate.

    • Chiara

      “Another reason men love a confident chick is because with confidence comes the lack of jealousy and lack of drama. ”

      I can see how it was misread.. but hoped the rest of the sentence had set the tone. My apologies.

  • The Dame Intl

    I agree with all of the above. I read a book (more than once) called Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat To Dreamgirl which changed my life because it taught these very principles. I recommend it to anyone who will listen and have bought it for all my girlfriends.

  • Genevieve Cordery

    I 100% agree. Stand out, but do it by purely being yourself. Badass chicks are those who other’s brag about and someone others are proud to know.

  • Anon

    There appears to be a lot of projection going on here. Honestly, this list reads much more like what women look for in a man than what men look for in women.

    What I will definitely agree on is the lack of jealousy and drama, and staying true to oneself. If there is one thing I find unappealing, it’s weakness of character. But I couldn’t care less whether or not she is desired by others (in fact this can be stressful) and I don’t give a shit about bragging to anyone. People aren’t trophies. If I’m with someone, I’m with them because I want to be.