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12 Reasons to Hate Valentines Day

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Written by Chiara Mazzucco

“Daddy, why didn’t you bring Mom flowers today? She’s going to be sad and think you don’t love her.”  I was neatly organizing the stack of valentine cards I had received at school. “Because your mom knows I love her,” he said without making eye contact. “But today is Lover’s day and if you don’t tell her today, it like, makes you a bad daddy or something.” I had to defend my mother’s honor. “Listen, I’ll buy your mother flowers the same day I do every year. The day after Valentine’s Day. And if you ask me why, I will tell you that when you’re married and in love, you’ll know. I don’t need a day to tell your mother I love her, I should be telling her every day.”

hate Valentine’s Day. I don’t hate it because I’ve gotten dumped on it; I don’t hate it because I’ve spent it single most years of my life; I don’t hate it because it’s sappy. I hate Valentine’s day because it does the one thing I firmly believe no real relationship can survive against: it sets standards. In addition to setting ridiculous standards for couples, it makes single people turn to ex boyfriends, pity parties, and other destructive things like drinking and drugs. Both of which are fine if done responsibly – but you get where I’m going with this.

Some sites will provide wonderful ways of celebrating being single, others will dish out amazing money-saving secrets, and most will focus their words on optimism and romance.

I, on the other hand, have decided to stab Lover’s day in the kidney.

12 Reasons to Hate Valentine’s Day

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If You’re Together:

  1. If it’s not the first V-day together, you have to beat last year. Shouldn’t have started the relationship off with such a bang.
  2. You expect things. And the let down isn’t like every other day let downs. It’s a really, really, big let down.
  3. You’re forced to be romantic, even though it’s probably a day the girl is on her period and the guy had a bad day at work and it’s probably a day they’d rather watch a really gore-filled movie.
  4.  Another card. Really? Thanks for the forced word vomit – again. 
  5.  You have to answer the world when it asks what the two of you did. It’s like you’re expected to have a romantic tale for the lonely souls in the audience. It better wow them. It better make them go “Aw!”

Keeping reading for more reasons to hate Valentines Day…

Chiara Mazzucco

Chiara Mazzucco

Founder and CEO at The Indie Chicks, Inc.
Founder and CEO of Indie Chicks, Inc.
Published author of The 9 Mirages of Love, web and graphic designer, and single mom to three cats and a baby.
Chiara Mazzucco